假精致育儿:我欠债10万+,就是为了刷刷朋友圈

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这两天,热门搜索横空出世,可算是一个恐怖的故事,看到了一个心地紧张的人。

“在不到七个月的时间里,20个人将会诞生。而在他们看到90后,就像90后一样。”

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这真是个无悔的时刻!在长江波浪向前推波后,前波浪在海滩上消失。

20岁以后的出生对90后的阿姨来说真的是一个恐怖的故事!

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两天前我遇到了我的学校妹妹。我去年从研究生院毕业,成为一家国有企业。

生活是稳定的,家庭幸福,未来是无忧无虑的,你在通往胜利者的道路上感到高兴。我遇到了一个我可以委托的终生伴侣,我和宝宝结婚了。

她并不认为她已经完成了自己的生活,毕业,就业,结婚,还有孩子,她能够在一年内解决她的问题。她没想到生命事件完成后,娃娃牌钞票机正式开业。

钱!钱!钱!

国产奶粉不安全吗?全进口!

国产尿布红臀?所有人都必须选择日产!

瓶子味道不合适吗?十个品牌买回家试了一下!

龙!

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我问她,国产奶粉和尿布都不是很好,她叹了口气说道:“我还是不着急,最好的孩子就是选择最好的。”

这还没有完成,也就是提价。小到衣服,玩具,指甲钳,大到加湿器,新鲜空气,净水器,未来的学校选择,培训,学习人才!

有一次,在国际学校的活动中,几位年轻的孕妇听了讲座并听取了讲座。北京国际学校的学费每年超过20万,纸币的速度赶上了三线城市的家庭。年收入。

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此前有人说,90后现在已经成为“隐性贫困人口”的重灾区,调查显示,90后的平均负债高达13万,超出收入水平的18倍之多。

,信用卡提前消费带来的。如果再加上养育孩子的费用,简直是从“隐性贫困人口”转成了“显性贫困人口”

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90后育儿压力大,那80后有好一点吗?

也没有!

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一位工作高薪体面的二胎爸爸,看似“二娃在手,吃穿不愁”,但其实却办了七张信用卡,欠了六位数的债。而这笔债中大部分指出源自于养娃。

“大女儿上着一学期两三万的私立幼儿园,还给她报了5个兴趣班,一个班起码要花两千元。”小儿子出生之后,尿布,奶粉,玩具,所有的都要最好的.养到读书,就成了名副其实的“超音速钞票粉碎机”。

我们身边也有这样的朋友,自己省吃俭用,入不敷出,但给孩子的都是最好的。

让孩子上最好的幼儿园,最好的私立学校;

为孩子报几门课外班,要让她琴棋书画样样精通;

不想让孩子在同班同学面前跌份,为孩子买最贵的运动鞋和名牌童装,配备最高级的ipad公司和IWATCH;

为了增长孩子的眼界,不惜为他报巨额的国际交流课程,还要每年带着去国外各地旅游几圈.

在苦不能苦孩子,再穷不能穷教育!

道路上扑腾得死去活来!

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XXWhat is the picture? At that time, Aunt Sugi had to be a grandmother, and today, in order to pursue the vanity of the circle of friends, there are people in front of it, in order to disguise the "high-end" exhausted and stunned, why bother?

You can save yourself and use it. In order to give your children better resources and education, you feel great.

If we want to maintain this high-end and exquisiteness through lending, this greatness seems to have a tragic and self-sufficient strength.

You think, the cedars are mixed into the giants, and they are tortured and abused. She lives stubbornly, mainly covering the protagonist's aura, having a big heart, whether your child has such luck, and a big heart that swallows the mountains and rivers.

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What kind of family is what kind of baby. A recent book《我是妈妈,我需要铂金包》is very illustrative of this problem.

Yale University's anthropology female doctor who has always felt that he is the winner of life, has squeezed all the family resources into the giant education circle in Manhattan, New York.

My son's classmates are not financial families or industrial giants. As soon as I was out of school, the school was full of luxury cars, and every mother dressed like a high society lady. In addition to their home, each of their son’s classmates has a private jet at home.

The son is so good that there is a friend in the class, and the mother-in-law is despised in a group of four mothers who are not diligent.

No matter how hard she tried, these moms who went to a grocery store wearing tens of thousands of boots on weekdays did not have a Kennedy to see her, and she and her son were inferior.

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Therefore, she, an excellent high-intelligence woman, actually wants to buy a Hermes bag to prove her existence.

"A great package is a sword and a shield. I want to buy something they don't have, what they want, or something they have but can't see others."

xx一个伟大的母亲,为了进入顶级教育圈,尽力而为,或者是非常笨拙,或者跟不上别人的速度。仅仅因为她开车,人们开着私人飞机。

你为什么要赶上它?

要说耶鲁的医生不是白人,母亲在抛弃她的家人之前完全理解了这个真相。家庭累了,孩子们累了,生活在一群私人飞机的朋友中,永远是一种根深蒂固的自卑。

在终于看到这个世界之后,耶鲁博士退出了这一群艰难攀登的朋友圈。我为我的孩子选择了一所普通的学校,一个年轻的家庭从此幸福地过着幸福的生活。

生活中的所有痛苦只不过是自我克制的痛苦。

父母养育宝宝,混合父母,是一个坑,佛是优雅,平静和平静,参与后,它成为一个真正的苦姨必须是“假的精致”。

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事实上,富人并不大。

在最近热销的品种《我们是真正的朋友》中,小S的女儿艾莉对母亲说,她有一件她想买的外套。结果,小S看到了照片,戒指的女儿通常教育她的女儿。

她认为这件衣服是名牌,价格太高了,女儿处于长身体的阶段,衣服消除的频率太高,不买教育女儿不养成消费习惯花大钱。

Big S姨妈认为衣服非常好,而且它们都是作为礼物送给Ellie的。两姐妹的养育观点之间的激烈碰撞也引发了观众关于“不应该给孩子起名字”的讨论。

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For a star whose income is several times that of an ordinary person, a street fashion clothing with a price of more than 1,000 yuan is not difficult, but the concept of childcare of the small S has been well received by many netizens. Because in this world, the most important thing is not the face, but the "lizi".

Everyone wants to give their children the best of everything, even at the expense of getting into the abyss of debt. But for children, those “exquisite” courses and lifestyles may sometimes be a burden for them, but rather a “fake exquisite”. Poor and poor cultivation, rich and rich, there is no fixed rule in raising children, and it is best for children in the scope of their abilities.

"Fake exquisiteness" brings "true sin", and the most precious is always the character and literacy of the child.

This is the most precious "exquisite".

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